Gentle Dom

Gentle Dom is a role that many men can identify with, and this doesn’t mean they are soft in all aspects of their lives or that you can walk over them.

A gentle Dom has a more nurturing side to them; they are more respectful and self-aware. A gentle Dom is often very giving of themselves and pleasure. Although this can be said about most Doms, gentle Doms usually don’t use impact play or rough play in the bedroom.

There are many different types of Doms in the world, and not anyone is identical; Doms also change with varying partners. A gentle Dom can also be referred to as a soft Dom, Service Top, Daddy Dom as these are all nurturing Doms that enjoy sexually pleasuring their subs; they tend to enjoy giving pleasure more than receiving it.  

There is no right way or wrong way to be with a person, as we are all different and have different sides we share with people. A person might come across as an uptight asshole only to be a loving partner to their significant other. A gentle Dom will treat you like a precious flower, they are caring, emotional, and the biggest cheerleader you will ever need.

In BDSM, there are only two roles, Dominant and submissive. A Dom is assertive and controlling, where a sub is submissive and wants to be led by their partner. Ultimately though, both partners serve each other in their different roles.

Signs you might be a gentle Dom of with a gentle Dom:

• Nurturing and sensitive to your partner’s needs, but still assertive and firm with rules and tasks.
• If they are rough during sex, they will feel bad afterward and be remorseful during aftercare.
• They are against bruises, tears, and leaving any marks on you. It goes against everything they believe.
• They know how to turn their sub on and pleasure them; it makes them happy to give pleasure to their partner.
• They enjoy sensation play with their submissives.

A gentle Dom is a person that enjoys cuddling with their sub and will often take on a lot of responsibility in a dynamic or relationship. They want you to let them love you, protect you and care for you. They want to be the person you share everything with, and they want to make you feel better and give you the release you need from stress. They want to be your home and encourage you to become the best version of yourself.

A gentle Dom is not your typical Dom, they are softer and more nurturing but push them too far by breaking the rules or negating tasks, and they will punish you. They will apologize and feel bad afterward, but they still are firm in the rules and tasks they set.

A gentle Dom is rare and worth holding on to as they will serve you as much as you serve them.

There are many different types of Doms in the world, and not anyone is identical; Doms also change with varying partners. A gentle Dom can also be referred to as a soft Dom, Service Top, Daddy Dom as these are all nurturing Doms that enjoy sexually pleasuring their subs; they tend to enjoy giving pleasure more than receiving it.