BDSM is an acronym for Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism, and Masochism. You do not have to participate in all of the above definitions of BDSM. Not all submissives are masochists, and if you don’t enjoy or want pain, you should not include impact play into your dynamic.
A Pleasure Dom/me is a Dom/me that derives pleasure from sexually pleasuring their submissives. They will push their submissives to have as many orgasms as their submissive’s body can tolerate.
The most important thing to do with a dominant stuck in a rut is to talk to them; communication is essential in any dynamic. If you are a submissive, offer to come up with a scene once a month, taking the pressure off your dominant and encouraging them to come up with new ideas.
You would think a ruined orgasm would be easy to achieve, but it actually isn’t. There are so many ways you can have an orgasm; to stop or ruin one takes time and practice. If you stop too soon, it will be considered edging, and if you stop too late, they will still probably have an intense orgasm.
Erotic hypnosis, also know as Hypno Sex, is often used to increase sexual desires, sexual feelings, and how you respond sexually. Hypno Sex also falls in the BDSM world; it forms part of Dominance and submission play and is thought of as a kink.
A service Dom/me often seems to get a really bad wrap. They are often described as insecure as weak as they don’t take on the “dominant” role. They will take instructions from their bottom, often referred to as topping from the bottom. A Service Dom/me is also known as a Service Top.
This weekend a leaked video of an NYC council candidate in a BDSM dungeon was leaked on Twitter, and thankfully it seems no cancel culture bullshit has arisen from the leaked video.
S.S.C and R.A.C.K. are known acronyms in the BDSM community, and both these acronyms are in reference to BDSM activities and scenes; they form part of the fundamental BDSM principles.
Soft Doms are the gentleman of the BDSM realm, and you will crave their affection and encouragement once you understand their form of dominance.
People are always looking for funishment ideas, and depending on your BDSM dynamic and relationship, there are possibly hundreds of ways you can include funishments in your dynamic or relationship.
