Forced Orgasms
Forced orgasms are a lot of fun during role play scenes, and even though it may seem oxymoronic, you won’t actually be forced to orgasm as everyone enjoys having orgasms. So trust me, your orgasms won’t be forced upon you.
Forced orgasms are often included in BDSM scenes or activities. I have mentioned and discussed this several times before, but here’s a quick rehash. Everything in BDSM is consensual; safewords are a must and are agreed upon by both partners. If you are in a BDSM dynamic, limits and boundaries should always be negotiated before play. Any sexual activity forced on you without consent is sexual assault.
Usually, forced orgasms are used in CNC scenes. Your partner pretends to be a villain of sorts and has sex with you while you are fighting him off. The role-playing aspect is that he is forcing you to orgasm against your will. This has, however, been agreed to before the scene; therefore, nothing is being forced.
You should always first discuss your fantasies, desires, and wants with your partner. Nobody is a mind reader, so if you don’t tell them, they will never know. Once you have discussed it together, make sure this is something both of you want to do. Do your research and maybe even watch porn together on forced orgasm scenes.
Set a date for your forced orgasm play, this way, you can plan it out and discuss everything. You need to decide who will be giving the forced orgasms and how they will be forced. Discuss your limits and boundaries; also discuss what type of aftercare will be needed for both partners. These scenes can be very intense, and it is necessary to understand what will happen afterward.
Forced orgasms and some bondage items work really well together, so if you don’t have restraints consider investing in a decent set that you can add to your sex box for future scenes. Under the bed, restraints might be the best option for a first forced orgasm scene as they will be used in your bedroom, where you are most comfortable. Nothing beats being tied up and forced to orgasm over and over again.
Use your sex toys like a wand or vibrator to take it up a notch. You can use them in between orgasms as a form of sensation play, teasing them constantly by running it other their body as they recover from their forced orgasm.
It is important to remember that both of you need to enjoy it; this is a fun role play that will spice up any bedroom as long as both partners have consented and are open to trying new things. There is no right or wrong way to experiment sexually with your partner as long as you both enjoy it and give each other enough aftercare after the activities.
Usually, forced orgasms are used in CNC scenes. Your partner pretends to be a villain of sorts and has sex with you while you are fighting him off. The role-playing aspect is that he is forcing you to orgasm against your will. This has, however, been agreed to before the scene; therefore, nothing is being forced.