What is cock warming?
What is cock warming, also spelled cockwarming, is the act of keeping your partner’s cock warm. You can keep it warm in your mouth, ass, or vagina. It is entirely up to you whether any movement is allowed during cock warming; the aim is not to thrust. Cock warming is also referred to as soaking.
Cock warming can be used in several different ways, as a form of dominance with a partner, before or after sex, or just for the hell of it, as a non-sexual activity.
How can cock warming be a form of dominance?
If you are a Domme, you can sit on your submissives lap, his cock inside you. Your submissive sits perfectly still while you read a book or watch Netflix. You could even masturbate while on their lap, your submissive feeling as you climax and tighten around them; they are not allowed to trust or move during this activity. Most submissive men will find this act enthralling and as the ultimate act of submission, staying hard while you pleasure yourself.
If you are a Dom, you can put your cock inside your submissive, and they have to stay perfectly still. This builds up anticipation as to when or if you will be moving or thrusting; it is entirely up to you. The submissive should enjoy this as an act of service to their Dom, as it’s a privilege to have their Dom inside them. Some Doms might instruct the submissives to make sure they stay hard, and this is all entirely up to you how you want to use cock warming in your dynamic.
Many couples already use cock warming without realizing it; after sex, when you are still hard and inside your partner and you envelop them in the post-coital aftermath, this is considered cock warming as well.
Cock warming is described often as a nonsexual activity, putting your partner’s cock in your mouth while watching Netflix or reading a book. Even though it can often lead to sex, it is thought of as an intimate act of bonding and submission, and there is an element of emotional intimacy. Regardless of whether you are into BDSM or not, oral cock warming is comforting on an emotional level for both partners.
So next time you are spooning or chilling with your partner, try some cock warming without thrusting or moving. It might be a great bonding moment for the two of you, or at the worse, turn into a hot sex session for the both of you.
Cock warming can be used in several different ways, as a form of dominance with a partner, before or after sex, or just for the hell of it, as a non-sexual activity.