What is a Pleasure Dom/me?

A Pleasure Dom/me is a Dom/me that derives pleasure from sexually pleasuring their submissives. They will push their submissives to have as many orgasms as their submissive’s body can tolerate. However, there is more to it than unlimited orgasms.

A Pleasure, Dom/me, knows their submissive intimately; this means knowing them physically, mentally, and emotionally. Knowing how to turn them on without too much physical touch initially, but just talking to them, you should be able to turn them on. Pleasure Dom/me’s often enjoy forced orgasms, sensation play.

It is the build-up to the scene that Pleasure Dom/me’s do so well. Being restrained and blindfolded on a bed while hearing them move around you as they get the scene ready, their scent carrying you higher as you wait in anticipation for the first touch. Ever so often, light touch’s as they run their fingers across your thigh or the first swat of the flogger on your thigh, building up your arousal before they get what they want. Your pleasure!

Unfortunately, there are false narratives that depict what Dom/me’s should be in the online world. Porn videos will show a Dom, a man the size of an American football player, and hung like a horse commanding you to suck his dick or a little petite Domme just an inch bigger than Tinkerbell calling you a useless piece of shit while you kiss her feet. This is all role play in the world of porn, your typical cookie-cutter narrative of what BDSM should be, and this is furthest from the truth.

Everyone in this world is different, all our kinks are different, and all our ideas of what the perfect Dom/me is differ. You won’t find one Dom/me that is alike, and you can read books, join communities where you discuss your thoughts and understandings as to what specific roles mean, but ultimately you just have to be yourself. This is what is so great about BDSM, you can be yourself, and with the right partner, they will appreciate all you have to offer as you are.

A Pleasure Dom/me is a Dom/me that derives pleasure from sexually pleasuring their submissives. They will push their submissives to have as many orgasms as their submissive’s body can tolerate.