Role-play is when you change your behavior to take on a different persona, you can change your attitude, clothing, or wear costumes to get into the mindset of your preferred persona. You are, in essence, acting out fantasies that might be perceived as “different” in the real world, like role-playing a schoolboy and headmistress fantasy that is consensual between two adults.
Bondage cuffs are restraints made for sexual bondage; they are typically made from leather and padded with fake fur, silk, or soft leather and are much wider than handcuffs. Bondage cuffs usually have a locking mechanism like a buckle, but you can also find cuffs that use velcro. Bondage cuffs can be used on wrists or ankles, and they will often be sold with a D-ring attachment so that they can be used with other bondage items or equipment.
There is nothing like a bit of electrosex to put the spark back into your sex life. However, it is best always to remember that no matter how experienced you are with electrosex, you are still playing with electricity which is risky and can pose dangers if you aren’t careful.
The only shitty part about being a single kinkster is that aftercare is not always the highest priority of your play partner. Even though it is continually stated that aftercare is a must regardless of the dynamic many single kinksters don’t get adequate aftercare after a scene and this will often lead to subdrop or Domdrop, so self care is essential.
Usually, in BDSM scenes, you have intense physical and emotionally draining scenes that can play havoc with your emotions after huge surges of endorphins during the scene; partners might experience subdrop or even Dom drop after a scene. Aftercare helps ground partners and makes them feel safe and cared for afterward.
You will be surprised how many pervertible items you have lying around at home in drawers or even right in front of you that you never thought of before. Sex toys can be expensive and difficult to obtain if you are on a tight budget.
There is rhythm play in impact play, and impact play is more than just a punishment. You will typically punish a submissive for breaking the rules with an agreed-upon punishment. This is, however, different from impact play; impact play is usually part of a scene and more of a reward than a punishment.
Sissification is a broad term used for this fetish in the BDSM realm; we are all different and have unique wants and desires. So no person is the same in the kinks and wants; the same can be said for all aspects of sissy play.
Collaring is something that many submissives strive for in BDSM relationships or dynamics, collars many different things to different people in the kink world. We all have different needs and preferences, and as with all things BDSM, there is no rule book.
So what are negotiations in a BDSM relationship or dynamic? Usually, both partners will sit down together and discuss their soft limits and hard limits. These typically are things you are willing to try or are dead set against trying and need negotiating.
