Pegging and the insecurities it might create

Pegging

Pegging and the insecurities it might create

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Pegging is the new hot sexual activity at the moment, and many people are trying it out. However, not everyone talks about issues they are having or insecurities it creates.

When you and your partner decide that you want to try pegging, it is exciting, and you have all these strong women images running through your head of how hot and sexy it is, and it is. However, our perception of sexy doesn’t necessarily come across that way when you are wearing a harness that can feel very unsexy.

When you have decided to try pegging out with your partner and start looking to buy a strap-on, pay close attention to the description and guidelines from the manufacturer. You want a strap-on and harness to fit right and be positioned correctly, as this needs to be an enjoyable experience for both of you.

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Ideally, you want the harness and strap-on to sit along the pubic line, not high up on your hips, as this will make it uncomfortable and look strange. You want to feel and look sexy when you are kitted out in your pegging gear. Another way to feel a little extra sexy is to wear lingerie with your strap-on, and Some strap-on’s even come with sexy strap-on harness’s so that you don’t have to fuss with straps when the mood strikes.

Using a harness with straps takes practice and a bit of patience in the beginning. The best way to get over this frustration is to keep at it; many of the harnesses can be set up once correctly, and you just have to loosen one fastener near the hip that will make it easier in the future to get the harness on.

The biggest issue most women experience with pegging initially is that it does nothing for them physically or sexually. Yes, it is super hot that you are dominating your partner and giving them the best orgasm of their life, but you want to experience the pleasure yourself.

The base of the dildo must sit close to your clitoris so that you too get stimulated with every thrust, and this is why the harness needs to sit low close to the public line. You can also buy dildo attachments for the base on the dildo that will stimulate the clitoris or even a bullet vibrator to get you off while pegging your partner.

It is essential to find a position that works for you and your partner and add suitable toys to get you aroused and ultimately orgasm together. However, this might not always be possible, so always include foreplay. Depending on your position, you might even be able to tie a wand to you so that you also orgasm.

There will always be a solution or position available to help you feel sexier and aroused for every insecurity you might have around pegging. You and your partner will need to try different positions and toys to make your pegging the ultimate sexual activity.

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Pegging is the new hot sexual activity at the moment, and many people are trying it out. However, not everyone talks about issues they are having or insecurities it creates.

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