BDSM Punishment

BDSM punishment

BDSM Punishment

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BDSM punishment is something we all enjoy when this is part of your dynamic. Many of us enjoy pushing the boundaries and breaking the rules to see how far we can go before being punished.

When agreeing to include punishment in a BDSM dynamic or relationship, it must be discussed thoroughly and decided upon before introducing it into the dynamic. Punishment means different things to different people, so it is essential to understand beforehand what both partners understand what the punishment will entail and to discuss the rules and tasks that will form part of the dynamic.

A safeword is always necessary for a BDSM dynamic, even when a sub is being punished or disciplined. Both partners need to be able to trust that either of them can use a safeword if they feel uncomfortable or if a scene or punishment is going in the wrong direction.

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When a sub needs to be punished, never do it in anger or the heat of the moment, as this can push past their hard limits and cause physical or emotional trauma to the sub. The punishment must match the crime; minor infractions get minor punishments. If a Submissive disobeys their Dom/me’s rules or does not complete a task, there will be a punishment.

Below are a few punishments you can include in your dynamic.

  • House chores while naked, you can add bell clamps to your sub. Any ringing of bells is not allowed.
  • Cooking naked and then laying at your Dom/me’s feet while they eat their meal.
  • Bondage is also used as a punishment or having your sub stay in a specific position for a set duration.
  • A sub can write a 4000 worded essay about why they are being punished and why they will avoid this in the future.
  • Dom/me can instruct the sub not to speak or make eye contact.
  • Dom/me’s can ignore their sub for a set amount of time; of course, it needs to be consensual.
  • Dom/me’s can also use their submissives as human furniture.
  • Dom/me’s also can take away favorite toys, phones, or gaming devices as a form of punishment.

There are many different ways punishments can be used in a BDSM dynamic, whether it be edging, impact play, or electrosex; punishments will depend on your partner and what you have agreed to in your dynamic.

Always check in with your sub even while they are being punished, and make sure to provide aftercare after punishments.

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BDSM punishment is something we all enjoy when this is part of your dynamic. Many of us enjoy pushing the boundaries and breaking the rules to see how far we can go before being punished.

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