What should I wear to BDSM parties?

What should I wear to BDSM parties?

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What should I wear to BDSM parties? I have been asked this countless times by friends going to their first BDSM play party or kink events.

With the pandemic, many parties and events came to a screeching halt as nobody was sure what would happen and didn’t want to put any members in danger. Now that the vaccine rollouts are happening and more people are getting vaccinated, more events are taking place and small play parties.

So it is time to dust off the kinky wear and start getting ready for events and BDSM parties in your part of the world.

Back to the topic; What should I wear to play parties. Many events and parties will have a dress code of sorts, and this isn’t meant to force you to go out and buy kinky clothes. This is just to help keep the event or play party in line with the theme. I hate going all dressed up to an event and seeing people dressed in jeans and sneakers. Often the organizers may ask underdressed people to leave and return in more suitable attire.

Just about everyone has a little number in their cupboard that shows off the body and curves; whether it be a little black dress or a show-stopping red number, we all have that one piece that we know will turn heads. Pair that with a decent pair of heels or leather boots, and you are set to go.

Usually, you attend events or kinky play parties for one of two reasons; if you are single to meet someone possibly, so why would you go dressed casually? You wouldn’t, and you want to look your best. The other reason would be to mingle and show your partner off to make everyone envious of your Dom or sub. These events and play parties are for showcasing, and it is in our nature to show off our freaky sides once in a while.

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I enjoy wearing a pair of thigh-high boots with a short skirt and a corset; it shows off my best assets; I’m comfortable and confident. This is the most crucial part, and you need to feel confident in how you are dressed. It is pointless being dressed in lingerie and hiding away in a corner because you feel uncomfortable or self-aware.

I also own a few latex pieces if I’m in a naughty mood; latex can be very uncomfortable in the warmer months, and don’t even talk about going to the bathroom; on latex nights. I tend to drink very little so that I can avoid the ladies’ room, or it might end up looking like that scene from Friends when Ross got new leather pants.

If you are going to an event or party, always dress up. You are always on display one way or another; make sure you are comfortable, and above all, be confident in what you are wearing.

Now go out and get your freak on.

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So it is time to dust off the kinky wear and start getting ready for events and BDSM parties in your part of the world.

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