The best BDSM dating sites
BDSM dating is not for the faint-hearted, and with our current pandemic, it has made it so much harder to find like-minded kinksters. Then on top of it all, you have wannabes, predators, and abusers pretending to be what you want or are looking for from a BDSM relationship.
I always swore I would never try online dating, and it just made no sense to me as I find it difficult to trust anyone; this is obviously from my previous relationship trauma. I kept seeing the same people at clubs and dungeons, and there was nothing that tickled my fancy. I decided what the hell; I joined a BDSM dating site to see what is out there; I added a few BDSM-related “lines” to my bio and clearly stated that I was a dominant woman. The first guy who messaged me became my current partner; we instantly connected and realized we were equally kinky.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case with online dating, and there are many horror stories out there. I have spoken to many kinksters and, over time, realized that there are some friendly BDSM dating sites.
Fetlife has always been my go-to when asked for recommendations. However, FetLife is not a BDSM dating site; yes, you could meet potential partners there; however, that is not the purpose of Fetlife; it’s more a kinky Facebook. I have also found FetLife to be a little dead at the moment; the pandemic is obviously playing a role in this.
Some BDSM Dating sites worth a shot are listed below:
· Alt.com
· Feeld
· Fetster
Feeld is a new App, and I have heard it is really worth looking at; if threesomes are your thing, this is the site for you. You might even find your unicorn if you are hunting one. BDSM Hookups is a site mainly for submissives looking for a Mistress or Domme.
Bondage Pal says it all; it is a kinky-friendly site that is very informative for new kinksters and has something for everyone.
You could meet kinksters on any dating site; sometimes, it takes a bit longer to weed out the wannabes. Remember, as with everything online, not everyone is who they claim to be; look out for red flags. Trust your gut, and don’t reveal too much personal information about yourself in the beginning.
I would love to hear your opinion if you have had any experiences with these Apps or BDSM dating sites and if you have any recommendations for other kinky dating sites that I can add to the list.
Unfortunately, this is not always the case with online dating, and there are many horror stories out there. I have spoken to many kinksters and, over time, realized that there are some friendly BDSM dating sites.