The threesome fantasy

The threesome fantasy

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Threesomes are fun, and just about every person in the world has watched threesome porn or, at the very least, has a threesome fantasy. Whether it be two women and a man or two men and a woman, we have all thought about it before, and it is a fun fantasy. However, fantasy and reality are two completely different worlds.

I know of many couples that fantasied about threesomes and at some point decided to take it from fantasy to reality; most of the time, it destroyed the relationship and just ended in heartache. If both partners don’t entirely agree on the boundaries and the limits set beforehand, it will end up a hot mess. Jealousy and insecurities can change things quickly and make what would have been a fun night into an awkward and tense situation where someone feels left out and hurt.

When discussing threesomes with your partner, determine if this is just a fantasy or if there is a real need to include a third person; why is it necessary to bring another person into the bedroom? With the inclusion of another person, you both need to understand that it will change the relationship one way or another. The relationship always changes.

Firstly, you both need to be comfortable in your relationship, and you both need to be sure that you want this. If there is any doubt at all, slow down and discuss it. There is no need to rush into anything; you both need to be completely comfortable. Secondly, you need to establish who the third party will be; is it a friend or acquaintance? Will you instead find someone together online?

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Other rules worth establishing, how will the threesome take place? Will, both of you engage with the third partner, or will it just be you or only your partner? Where will the threesome take place, at your home or a hotel?

I usually advise my friends to meet someone new together, and this immediately helps with insecurities as you are both doing it together as a couple. It’s not just your partner wanting to bang your hot friend. The best place for a threesome would be a hotel, it plays a part of the fantasy, and there will be no reminiscence of the third person left in your home. You can, of course, change this as you engage in more threesomes as a couple.

Please make sure everyone involved gets tested for STIs and shares their results with each other. I also recommend first meeting for coffee and making sure everyone connects and feels comfortable before engaging in the threesome. If at any point either partner feels uncomfortable, slow it down or stop. This is consensual, and both partners need to be comfortable and don’t do it because your partner is excited, and you want to make them happy and not disappoint them by just going along.

Threesomes are fun, but there is a lot of planning involved. If you do it right, you will enjoy many threesomes over the years with your partner.

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Other rules worth establishing, how will the threesome take place? Will, both of you engage with the third partner, or will it just be you or only your partner? Where will the threesome take place, at your home or a hotel?

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