BDSM is often an excuse for abuse of subs

Your intuition and common sense will warn you if something feels wrong, if there are any red flags, you need to reassess the situation or the dynamic you are in, abuse of subs is more common than you think.

BDSM vs Abuse

BDSM vs abuse, there is no comparison. These are two completely different interactions that should not be compared to each other. One is forced, and the other is mutually agreed upon beforehand.