Should you do an enema before anal?

An enema already sounds like a daunting experience to those not used to it. Shooting water up your ass doesn’t sound like a pleasant experience, but many people that enjoy anal play swear it makes a huge difference, but it is entirely up to you if you want to use an enema.

Self care the single person’s aftercare

The only shitty part about being a single kinkster is that aftercare is not always the highest priority of your play partner. Even though it is continually stated that aftercare is a must regardless of the dynamic many single kinksters don’t get adequate aftercare after a scene and this will often lead to subdrop or Domdrop, so self care is essential.