Tag: self care

Ending the BDSM relationship or dynamic can be a complicated process. A BDSM dynamic or relationship is so much more profound than your average vanilla relationship.

An enema already sounds like a daunting experience to those not used to it. Shooting water up your ass doesn’t sound like a pleasant experience, but many people that enjoy anal play swear it makes a huge difference, but it is entirely up to you if you want to use an enema.

Sub drop is awful, and anyone that has experienced it knows what I’m talking about; you go from an intense high to such a low that you feel unworthy and broken. Now sub drop varies between people and how they deal with sub drop.

The only shitty part about being a single kinkster is that aftercare is not always the highest priority of your play partner. Even though it is continually stated that aftercare is a must regardless of the dynamic many single kinksters don’t get adequate aftercare after a scene and this will often lead to subdrop or Domdrop, so self care is essential.