Meeting a new Dom/me can be exciting as fuck, but it is just as nerve-wracking as going on a first date or, even worse, a blind date. Many people started looking for online relationships or dynamics during the pandemic when they discovered kinky porn and realized they were kinky.
Cock worship will fall under the BDSM umbrella of Dominance and submission, and you can include it as a Dominant or a submissive in your play.
FemDom or Dommes are female dominants; some take this role on quickly as it is in their nature, where others will often be asked to Domme, their partner, for the first time in a sexual nature. Domme’s are biological women or identify as female.
CNC and rape play have become extremely popular over the last few years, and many vanilla people will see this as dangerous and reckless, and in a way, it can be. But this is the difference between fantasy vs. reality in kinks.
You can include many accessories with CBT play like cages, cock rings, vibrators, and estim. You, however, don’t necessarily need accessories for CBT. You can use impact play, slapping, pinching, or squeezing. Sensation play with different temperatures or some wax play could take it up a notch. I would first start off with slapping, biting, and pinching before buying accessories that might not be necessary.
You are right to want to test the waters and see what is out there in the online world of kink, but as we all have limits and boundaries, you need to set the same boundaries for yourself when it comes to online BDSM communities.
Apart from BDSM, there are many power dynamics in any relationship; once you understand these relationships in your life, it is so much easier to circumvent unhealthy relationships. Whether you are in a kink or vanilla relationship, there are always dominant and submissive roles, and female-led relationships are more common than you would think. It is all about understanding yourself, your partner, and your relationship dynamic.
There are two types of people when it comes to kinky bruises, those that don’t give a fuck and show them off and those that are more careful and cover them up. There is nothing wrong with either of the two options.
So let’s get down to it; What is a rainbow kiss? The rainbow kiss needs two elements to make it work, a man ejaculating and a woman on her menstrual cycle. So it starts off with the 69 sex position, where both partners are giving each other oral sex and thereafter kissing with the bodily fluids still in your mouth; and by exchanging fluids (semen and menstrual blood), Ta-Da, you have a rainbow kiss!
Some kink snobs will even claim that you aren’t a true submissive or a natural Dom; this is just a way to get under your skin as they try to show off their elitism. Luckily not everyone in the community is like this, and you will meet some awesome kinky people.
