Female led relationships
- by WiseHarsh
Female led relationships are often frowned upon by society; however, with Femdom becoming more mainstream over the years. Many people are starting to understand the basics of female led relationships, and there is more to it than just being pussy whipped.
Apart from BDSM, there are many power dynamics in any relationship; once you understand these relationships in your life, it is so much easier to circumvent unhealthy relationships. Whether you are in a kink or vanilla relationship, there are always dominant and submissive roles, and female led relationships are more common than you would think. It is all about understanding yourself, your partner, and your relationship dynamic.
If you are interested in Femdom, even outside the bedroom, there are ways to include it in your everyday life. You will first need to discuss this, of course, with your partner and understand what it is you both want to gain from a female led relationship, and this does not mean your partner has no say. You are still both equals, and both of your feelings and thoughts count no matter what. There is no femdom mold or type, and it is what you want it to be and how you want to embrace it.
Below are some suggestions if you want to lead your relationship and how to go about it.
Communication is crucial in any relationship, but even more so in a BDSM Femdom relationship, you have to make time to discuss your relationship. Weekly check-ins will help you navigate all the new territory initially; you can change it up once you have an established dynamic.
Listen to your partner, and you need to understand what their needs are, especially if they are handing the reigns over to you. You need to understand what their submission means to them and how they need you to set tasks or rules that make them feel secure in the relationship. You will also need to pay attention to their body language, as this will help you understand them better.
You need to be confident in who you are and love yourself; this is very important as you are now also responsible for your submissives well-being. You need to be able to support and encourage them physically, emotionally, and mentally. So you need to be in the right headspace; in order to look after them, you need to first look after yourself.
Understand your submissives submission; as women, we often take on the caregiver role in our relationships, like cooking, cleaning, looking after pets or kids, and possibly shopping. If your submissive wants to take over these roles, let them. They see this as a form of service to their dominant partner. It can be hard to let go of habits ingrained into our subconscious as “roles” a woman needs to fulfill.
Join some online Femdom communities, and it will help you understand yourself and your partner. It always helps to know like-minded people that understand your type of relationship. They will offer your support, and I can guarantee you will get tips and hints on handling certain situations, tasks, and even punishments.
You can have a female led relationship as long as it is consensual and know your partners, wants, and needs. Always paying attention to their limits or boundaries, there are many female led relationships in the world.
Apart from BDSM, there are many power dynamics in any relationship; once you understand these relationships in your life, it is so much easier to circumvent unhealthy relationships. Whether you are in a kink or vanilla relationship, there are always dominant and submissive roles, and female-led relationships are more common than you would think. It is all about understanding yourself, your partner, and your relationship dynamic.