BDSM had been likened to perversion and sexual deviants for decades, many knew about it, but few discussed it openly due to the social perception of BDSM. Thankfully, things have changed, and it has become slightly more mainstream, and more people are open to discussing it.
There are typically two types of subspace that can be achieved during a scene. The first type of subspace is usually reached through impact play, wherein the body enters subspace through the rush of adrenalin and endorphins during impact play, especially if there is a rhythm. The second type of subspace is achieved psychologically from the intense pleasure created by their Dom/me; some subs describe this as a euphoric state or out-of-body experience.
The rectum has many nerve endings, as this is why so many people enjoy anal sex or any kind of anal play. If anal sex or anal play is on your bucket list, you will want to first start with butt plugs. Butt plugs come in all shapes and sizes and are great for beginners.
Sub drop is awful, and anyone that has experienced it knows what I’m talking about; you go from an intense high to such a low that you feel unworthy and broken. Now sub drop varies between people and how they deal with sub drop.
You deserve to be a priority even if you are a submissive, your submission is a gift to your Dom/me, and if they take it for granted, you can withdraw consent and either renegotiate your dynamic or move on. Your wants and needs in your dynamic are just as important as your Dom/me’s; submissives are equals to their partners no matter what; as a Dom/me, you want to protect and care for your submissive.
Kink without sex is more common than most believe, especially in many BDSM dynamics; it is about the kink and not about the sex. If you have been to any dungeons, you will have noticed this yourself.
A riding crop is an implement with a long semi-flexible pole with a base handle that you hold, and on the other end, the tip has several different tips you can choose from that are used to create a strike and sound.
Sex furniture is fantastic, and I typically want one of each, but the sizes of these pieces and pricing can be a deterrent. So why not use what you already have at home that won’t be so inconspicuous. Below are some ideas that you can use at home.
Pony play is role play in a BDSM context where one partner will play a pony, and the other partner will either be the Rider or the Trainer. It typically forms part of a D/s dynamic or relationship where the submissive partner is the pony, and the Dom/me is the Rider or Trainer.
Gentle Dominance doesn’t mean your partner is not Dominant; their technique is more nurturing and caregiver orientated. Instead of punishing you, they will encourage and persuade you to do better; they will praise and coo over their submissives.
