Sounding, a rod in the knob

Sounding is actually a medical procedure used the unblock, probe, or clear the urethra. In medical play, it is used as a form of dominance and submission, and those that participate in sounding say it creates a heightened sense of sensation and pleasure. How do you sound? Usually, a stainless steel rod is inserted into the urethra of a penis towards the bladder.

What is sensory deprivation and how to include it in a scene

So you may be wondering what sensory deprivation is. Sensory deprivation is a relaxation technique that spas and wellness centers offer. You get submerged in a water tank that eliminates sound and light, allowing you to become more attuned to your body. Now in BDSM, sensory deprivation play is similar, but it comes with a whole lot of sex and some D/s.

What is Humiliation play?

Humiliation play falls under the BDSM umbrella, but many non-kinky people also use it. Humiliation play means demeaning or degrading your partner with words. However, it is intended to arouse them, not insult them.

Fisting more than a hand full

Possibly the most misleading information about fisting is that, of course, your vagina will be stretched out after fisting, and you will have a windsock between your legs for the rest of your life, LOL. The vagina is a muscle, so it will not stretch out as long you do it right and take it slow.

The crying game

Dacryphilia, also known as dacrylagnia, is a paraphilia in which a person becomes aroused from someone or themselves crying or sobbing. Now, this might be strange to some, but many people do include this in their scenes or dynamics.

An introduction to paddles

Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want a hardcore black BDSM-themed paddles or a pink heart-shaped paddle, it is entirely your choice.

What are teledildonics

You can use teledildonics even as part of virtual reality scenes or join a sex party and experiment with other people within the safety of your own home. Teledildonics promotes self-love and intimacy.

Ready to be spanked?

If you fantasize about being spanked, you might be happy to know that you are not alone in your kink; spanking is possibly one of the most common kinks in relationships.

What is pet play?

As mentioned above, the most popular pets are pups, bunnies, and kittens; however, you could pet play or animal play as any animal. If you have a primal side, you could roleplay as a wolf or tiger. It is entirely up to you what pet or animal you would like to roleplay.

Basics of flogging

Flogging can be a punishment, but many people use flogging for sexual arousal. It is used for sadomasochistic pleasure in many BDSM scenes. It will usually be used in scenes with sadists and masochists, as pleasure can be derived through pain.

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