If you have a punching fetish, you will need to find a partner that enjoys this as well because, as I have mentioned above, many people are firmly against it. So once you have found a partner who wants this kind of rough play, you can slowly incorporate it into play once you have established rules and boundaries.
Wax play has been around for years and is generally safe as long as you know what you are doing and have suitable candles on hand. Wax play falls under sensation play as it is thought to be very erotic to have your partner drip hot wax on your naked body while you wait in anticipation to feel the heat of the wax dripping on your body.
So when you start your journey into BDSM, and you feel you know enough about it to want to explore it with a Dom/me, don’t just go hunting for a Dom/me. You are looking for a person, yes, there will be kink involved, but you will also need a connection outside of the dynamic. The general rule of thumb, good people, make good Dom/me’s, shitty people make for shitty Dom/me’s.
These days figging is used as a form of sensational play, and I’m sure as punishment in some cases. The figging process requires you to carve a fresh piece of ginger, remove the skin, and expose the flesh of the ginger.
When using temperature play in your scene, you can use many different items and ingredients. If you plan on using food items or creams, always pay attention to the ingredients listed and make sure your partner doesn’t have any allergies to any elements you want to use. Nothing will kill the mood like an emergency trip to the ER.
Foot fetishism has a broad spectrum of what turns people on; however, there are two main categories when it comes to foot fetishes: clean feet or dirty feet. Foot fetishism is then further sexualized by the size of the foot, the shape of the arch, and the toes. Some people enjoy looking at naked feet, feet in socks, pantyhose, and different shoes and high heels.
Aftercare means different things to different people and their dynamics. Aftercare can last anything from a few minutes to several hours depending on the scene and what the sub and Dom/me need afterward. Aftercare is a way of making sure both parties are okay and back to normal; often, physical contact and assurance is necessary
Rough play involves several kinks like punching, kicking, and slapping. Rough play is often used in CNC scenes and even primal play. You are essentially fighting off your “attacker” or fighting for your life in the scene.
Cucking is a popular fantasy among couples, and the term is searched for daily worldwide; it is also a popular category on porn sites. There are several terms involved with cucking; like cuckold, bull, and cuckquean.
Erotic Asphyxiation is the official term used for breath play, breath control, or choking. You intentionally restrict your partner’s breathing during sexual activity, which is achieved through strangulation, smothering, or suffocating your partner. Breath play can be used during masturbation as well, and this is called autoerotic Asphyxiation.
