BDSM vs abuse, there is no comparison. These are two completely different interactions that should not be compared to each other. One is forced, and the other is mutually agreed upon beforehand.
Some of the myths of BDSM and lies told are just straight-up red flags and if they try to use any of these with you, run.
We are creating a society where all our free thinkers, future academics, and leaders will become hesitant to speak out on specific issues or injustices because of cancel culture.
Human traffickers make over $9.5 billion annually in the USA, although human traffickers traffic men, women, and children. Women and children are more at risk for commercial sexual exploitation.
When I try BDSM online dating, it is to find a like-minded partner with similar interests that I can connect with; most BDSM dynamics take time to develop. It would be better if you found a connection built on a suitable dynamic for both partners, and once a bond has been made, you can start the dynamic.