What is sensory deprivation and how to include it in a scene

So you may be wondering what sensory deprivation is. Sensory deprivation is a relaxation technique that spas and wellness centers offer. You get submerged in a water tank that eliminates sound and light, allowing you to become more attuned to your body. Now in BDSM, sensory deprivation play is similar, but it comes with a whole lot of sex and some D/s.

Bondage, how to set a bondage scene

You and your partner have realized that bondage is a shared kink; you have discussed it in-depth and negotiated all your limits and boundaries. You have decided on a safe word, and you are ready to play, but where do you begin? How do you set the bondage scene?

What is Humiliation play?

Humiliation play falls under the BDSM umbrella, but many non-kinky people also use it. Humiliation play means demeaning or degrading your partner with words. However, it is intended to arouse them, not insult them.

Different sex toy materials and how to clean them

Even though cleaning your sex toys might seem like a pain in the arse, it is necessary to avoid infections like UTIs. Apart from cleaning your sex toys, you will also need a clean space to store them and if you received a pouch or sleeve with the toy, store the sex toy in there. You can store them in a clean container; try not to share the toy container with other toys. It will be pointless to clean your sex toy and then keep it in a place that is often exposed to different temperatures and, of course, dust or dirt.

Fisting more than a hand full

Possibly the most misleading information about fisting is that, of course, your vagina will be stretched out after fisting, and you will have a windsock between your legs for the rest of your life, LOL. The vagina is a muscle, so it will not stretch out as long you do it right and take it slow.

The crying game

Dacryphilia, also known as dacrylagnia, is a paraphilia in which a person becomes aroused from someone or themselves crying or sobbing. Now, this might be strange to some, but many people do include this in their scenes or dynamics.

An introduction to paddles

Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want a hardcore black BDSM-themed paddles or a pink heart-shaped paddle, it is entirely your choice.

What are teledildonics

You can use teledildonics even as part of virtual reality scenes or join a sex party and experiment with other people within the safety of your own home. Teledildonics promotes self-love and intimacy.

Ready to be spanked?

If you fantasize about being spanked, you might be happy to know that you are not alone in your kink; spanking is possibly one of the most common kinks in relationships.

What is pet play?

As mentioned above, the most popular pets are pups, bunnies, and kittens; however, you could pet play or animal play as any animal. If you have a primal side, you could roleplay as a wolf or tiger. It is entirely up to you what pet or animal you would like to roleplay.

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