Technology in a Dominance and submission dynamic

Domme, Dominance and submission

Technology in a Dominance and submission dynamic

Dominance and submission is about the power exchange between both partners, there needs to be a partner that takes control and a partner that gives up control. It sounds easy, but it isn’t always easy, especially if you are in an online or long-distance relationship.

It isn’t easy to assert Dominance when you live with your partner, as we all have responsibilities and busy lives that we are all trying to navigate. It might even feel impossible if you and your partner don’t live together.

Technology is luckily your new best friend. Tech has already made it so much easier to have actual online relationships and helped improve long-distance relationships but allowing partners to connect easier. There are apps and routines that you could include in your D/s dynamic that will enforce your power exchange.

We just about all have smartphones these days, so let’s look at possible ways to enforce your D/s power exchange dynamic.

Photos are a great way to prove that you have completed your tasks. You can even have your partner choose your outfit for the next day, or you could even get kinker by sending pictures of yourself masturbating or proving that you are in chastity or self-bondage; the possibilities are endless.

You can easily set up task lists or self-care routines that are shared with your partner; there are hundreds if not thousands of apps that will allow this to become part of your dynamic. Depending on what you both have agreed to beforehand, you can set tasks like exercise or meditation sessions for your partner or even everyday household chores. Self-care is crucial in online or long-distance relationships; whether you share your fitness app with your partner or keep an online journal, all these little things will help you keep your partner focused.

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You can also share calendars so that you can set up play sessions where you both are present and available to do a scene or spend time together, and you can schedule video calls for scenes where you can see each other while playing together. Another great option is to get interactive sex toys that you can include in these play scenes.

Relationships aren’t easy, and trying to maintain a D/s power exchange will take some trial and error before you find what works for you as a dynamic. Always set up a time for each other and create a daily texting routine where you message at least every morning and evening. By creating these routines through technology, you are strengthening your dynamic and power exchange.

Punishments and rewards can be agreed upon to help sweeten the deal for both of you; technology is your friend, so make it work for your dynamic.

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Dominance and submission is about the power exchange between both partners, there needs to be a partner that takes control and a partner that gives up control. It sounds easy, but it isn’t always easy, especially if you are in an online or long-distance relationship.

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