Pegging should it become part of your dynamic?

There are often misconceptions around pegging that will stop many couples from experimenting with pegging. Pegging not only flips the power exchange dynamic but also allows your partner to experience the pleasure you provide.

What is Pegging?

Pegging is a sexual activity typically where a woman wears a strap on dildo and anally penetrates a man. It can be highly pleasurable for a man as it stimulates his prostate. Several positions can be used for pegging, the most popular being doggy style. Pegging is usually part of a FemDom dynamic; however, many couples include it in their play.

Some people believe pegging might make them gay, which is furthest from the truth. Pegging is a sexual act that a male partner derives sexual pleasure from; it has nothing to do with sexual orientation; it is about the pleasure they receive.

Anal is messy, Yes there are ways that you can try to minimize the mess, but you cant expect to play in the mud and not get muddy. Shit happens, we are all grown-ass people, and this is one of those that you need to get past. There are a few things you can do:

• Encourage your partner to eat a high-fiber diet that allows for more solid bowel movements, and you play 5 – 7 hours after their last bowel movement. Avoid pegging if your partner has an upset stomach or stomach flu.
• You could also opt for an enema a few hours before play, which will make you squeaky clean with less risk of a mess.
• You can lay down old towels, sheets, or puppy pads that can be disposed of quickly. You can also use condoms on your strap on dildo as it can also be easily disposed of afterward. This way, clean-up is quick and easy so that there is more time for aftercare.

I think the most daunting part of pegging is buying a strap on and deciding on a dildo. Your best option would be to buy a strap-on harness kit; it has all the basics you need and can easily be upgraded with new dildos or accessories. The harness needs to be comfortable for both partners, so always make sure to read the reviews on these starter kits; people tend to be brutally honest in their online reviews.

Pegging can be uncomfortable or sore initially, not only because this is a new experience but also because both partners are often nervous. Lube, lube, lube!!! Lube is your best friend when it comes to pegging; more lube is always better, especially if you are new to pegging. You should always engage in foreplay beforehand as this will help relax both partners, and when you are ready, start with your fingers slowly and build up from there.

Forget about the destination and enjoy the journey. Take your time and make sure your partner is comfortable and enjoying it; never go further than they are willing to go. Pegging doesn’t typically happen on the first night if your partner is new to it; it will take a few times to get them to their peak.

There are often misconceptions around pegging that will stop many couples from experimenting with pegging. Pegging not only flips the power exchange dynamic but also allows your partner to experience the pleasure you provide.