How to get into FemDom

FemDom has become increasingly popular over the last few decades, and more women are interested in trying it out. Still, it can be daunting, especially if you are a novice and single. As a woman in a relationship, it is possibly easier to explore FedmDom with a partner than when you are single and want to try something new.

What is FemDom?

FemDom is short for Female Dominance, and it typically refers to BDSM dynamics or relationships where the woman will take on the Dominant role. It is part of the relationship’s power exchange with a submissive partner and can be physical or psychological. FemDom is often linked to specific kinks like bondage, CBT, humiliation, face sitting, sissification, forced chastity, forced orgasms, and pegging.

When I first realized FemDom is something I want to try out, I found it hard to find someone I trusted enough to try it out IRL, and there is always the fear of making a total arse out of yourself or, worse, being mocked. That’s when I decided to try it out online first, and it is easier to get into the mindset and find your inner FemDom.

LOL, I know online isn’t the same as in-person, but how else will you find your persona and build up the confidence you need to do it in person?

So why try FemDom Online?

Sexting or online messaging is a great way to test the water; nobody can tell you how nervous you are or how awkward you might feel initially. The first few messages will make you feel giddy and cheesy, but you will know you are on the right track once you get your desired response.

In real life, you cant pause a few minutes to think of a good command or response. It needs to be instantaneous; there is no time, but online there is. You can take a few minutes to get it right, and it will help build up your confidence with every message. It also enables you to understand your wants out of FemDom and whats turns you on with this type of dynamic. Are you hardcore or more into gentle FemDom?

It is always important to first talk to your texting partner to know what they want out of it and always make sure you have consent to try or say certain things. Are they into humiliation? Do they want to send you pictures or videos of their tasks?

You also need to find your FemDom persona, watch some porn and read erotica. This will help you define what type of Domme you want to be. Maybe you might enjoy humiliating your partner, o you might enjoy edging them. Hell, you might just want to be worshipped like a Goddess.

Always dress for the occasion, even if it is just sexting; not only will it give you a confidence boost from the get-go. You will quickly get into your FemDom mindset, and you will always be ready if you want to tease your sub with some pictures or even a video.

FemDom is short for Female Dominance, and it typically refers to BDSM dynamics or relationships where the woman will take on the Dominant role. It is part of the relationship’s power exchange with a submissive partner and can be physical or psychological. FemDom is often linked to specific kinks like bondage, CBT, humiliation, face sitting, sissification, forced chastity, forced orgasms, and pegging.