Fake findoms will ruin submissive men
Fake findoms are ruing submissive men. They create such an unpleasant experience that submissive men often question if this is something they really want to participate in at the end of the encounter.
What is Findom?
Findom is financial domination; submissive men will send these women money or lavish gifts, often expecting nothing in return from these women. In our society, your self-worth is measured by money. So with submissive men that have a findom kink, this is the ultimate form of submission, giving your self-worth over to another.
Many submissive men, however, want a femdom. A woman that will be their dominant and feed their submissives needs regardless of what it might be. Many submissive men will create online profiles on personal ad pages or dating sites looking for a femdom. Unfortunately, they are often scammed by women claiming to be femdoms.
There are so many fake findoms online, and it seems some women think if they can act like a bitch that somehow it entitles them to act like fake femdoms while actually being catfish scammers that have no idea how femdom works or what the foundation of BDSM is; like how to respect your partner’s boundaries and provide adequate aftercare.
There are authentic femdoms out there in real life and online; it will, however, take your time to find your femdom. Be careful if you put a personal ad up, and a woman drops in your dm’s claiming to be the Dom you have been looking for all along. It will more than likely be another fake. Femdoms are human beings looking for a submissive partner; an actual Dom will not ask you for money or claim you need to pay a fee. They won’t collar you after talking to you for only an hour as these bonds take time to build and earn each other’s trust.
Anyone can call you names and treat you like shit; that does not mean they understand BDSM or have your best interests at heart. It is not easy to find a partner online, especially with so many fake findoms and femdoms out there. Trust your gut, and look out for all the red flags.
So to the submissive men out there looking for a femdom, look for online communities and join your local BDSM community. Go to play nights and munches, meet local people that can teach you, and introduce you to others. Please don’t stop living your life while looking for the one; you will find them in places you never expected.
Remember, femdoms do it for the possibility of a relationship in a D/s dynamic, not for financial gain. Don’t let fake findoms ruin you for authentic femdoms.
Findom is financial domination; submissive men will send these women money or lavish gifts, often expecting nothing in return from these women. In our society, your self-worth is measured by money. So with submissive men that have a findom kink, this is the ultimate form of submission, giving your self-worth over to another.