Funishment ideas

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Funishment ideas

People are always looking for funishment ideas, and depending on your BDSM dynamic and relationship, there are possibly hundreds of ways you can include funishments in your dynamic or relationship.

What is funishment? Funishment is used often in a scene, or it forms part of the build-up to a scene. You have established rules and tasks in your relationship or dynamic, but let us be honest, some rules are meant to be broken unless it has explicitly been said that it’s a limit or boundary. Funishments are intended to be fun punishments, so lighthearted banter, back chatting, or any mischievous acts should open the door to some funishment.

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So below are some funishment ideas you can include in your next scene:

  • You can incorporate many things like sensation play as part of funishment; nipple clamps and forced orgasms work great together, constantly teasing your submissive until they beg you to stop.
  • You can also use temperature play during funishment; you can tie your submissive up and use ice cubes or wax to tease them.
  • You can have your submissive become furniture for an hour before a scene; they could either be a table or footstool. This works excellent with remote-controlled sex toys; your submissive has to stay perfectly still as a piece of furniture while you edge them with a sex toy.
  • You can have your submissive stand close to a wall with a penny under each fingertip and a penny between their nose and the wall.; they can’t let the pennies drop. You can either tickle your submissive or used forced orgasms, and their punishment could be a light spanking for every penny they allowed to fall.
  • You can tie your submissive’s hands and feet together with rope and hide an item in the room that they need to find; they will need to worm crawl around the room to find the item. Only once they have found it can you untie them.
  • You can have your submissive perform servitude around your place, like cooking or cleaning naked. You can also include remote-controlled sex toys during their chores.
  • If your submissive is a masochist, you could play a card game where you draw a card, let’s say nine, and your submissive draws a six; they will get the number difference in spankings or floggings. If they draw a number higher than yours, they get to perform oral, i.e., 10 seconds for every number higher.

Funishments are supposed to be fun, something both partners can do together as a way to unwind and destress with a sexual element involved. If you know your partner’s limits and boundaries, you could include so many different funishment ideas into your play. BDSM is roleplay that should be enjoyed by both partners enthusiastically.

Suppose your submissive is purposely breaking rules that are hard limits for you and not just trying to get a bit of funishment out of a scene. In that case, you will need to take a step back from your dynamic and discuss the underlying issues or renegotiate your dynamic.

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People are always looking for funishment ideas, and depending on your BDSM dynamic and relationship, there are possibly hundreds of ways you can include funishments in your dynamic or relationship.

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