The art of humiliation

Humiliation Play - Dangerous submissives

The art of humiliation

Learning and understanding humiliation play takes time, patience, and understanding. You need to know what you and your partner gain from it and what elements your partner enjoys from being humiliated.

Humiliation can have varying elements, depending on your dynamic.

You have verbal humiliation; this, however, needs to be thoroughly discussed beforehand with the submissive to understand what are hard limits and soft limits. I would recommend you exclude humiliating your partner based on their intelligence or looks. This is often a hard limit with subs and can change the trust of the dynamic instantly.

You have a personal relationship with your partner, and even though they might enjoy humiliation, specific topics should just be avoided at all costs

When using verbal humiliation, you can tell them what a cum slut they are. You can degrade them and their genitals, tell them how disgusting they are for allowing them to be in this position, and humiliate them for how they react to this type of sexual arousal. You can tell your sub what a “dirty whore” or simp they are.

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Another form of humiliation play is to have your submissive stand naked in the middle of the room as your stare at them in “disgust.” If they are shy, you can force them to look at you, or if they enjoy you staring at them, you can tell them to look at the floor. You can walk around your submissive and inspect their bodies or instruct them to maintain certain poses or postures. This, however, needs to be discussed in-depth, all people differ in these situations, and you need to know that you won’t cross a line or trigger them.

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If you and your partner are into watersports, this is another way that you can humiliate them. You can either urinate on them and mock them for the way they smell. Another way is to have them urinate and taste their own urine. You are, furthermore, humiliating them for being vile enough to taste their own urine.

NO matter what a Dom/me and sub find to be acceptable in their dynamic or scenes when it comes to humiliation, both partners need to be comfortable testing their boundaries and trusting each other. A safeword is a must in all dynamics and scenes, especially when humiliation is involved. You can so quickly go too far and really hurt your partner’s feelings and leave them feeling inadequate.

The most crucial part of humiliation activities is aftercare. This is an essential part of any dynamic. If you can break your partner down in humiliation, you must bring them back up and assure them during aftercare. It would be best if you assured them that none of it was real and only part of your play session.

My favorite aftercare routine is cuddling, showering together, and chilling; we discuss the scene and talk about what we liked or disliked and what we should push harder on next time.  

Humiliation play is very personal, and one should start slowly making sure what works for both of you.

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Learning and understanding humiliation play takes time, patience, and understanding. You need to know what you and your partner gain from it and what elements your partner enjoys from being humiliated.

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