Kink without sex

Kink without sex is more common than most believe, especially in many BDSM dynamics; it is about the kink and not about the sex. If you have been to any dungeons, you will have noticed this yourself.

Now many people want a relationship with elements of BDSM, where others just want a BDSM dynamic involving their kink without having any type of relationship with their sub or Dom/me. This type of dynamic exists, and many asexual people enjoy this about BDSM as they can engage in activities and either give up or gain control without making it sexual.

Pro Dom/me’s are a great example. Yes, you may be paying for their services, but it is all about the kink and what you get out of it; if you are a sub, a Pro Dom/me won’t give you what you want. It is all about your submission and control over you.

A Rigger and Rope bunny is typically the same, and serious Riggers see Shibari as art and a way to relax. What they can create with the rope and how to display their rope bunny perfectly within this art form. It is about performance and relaxation, and often the rope bunny will go into subspace while being tied up or suspended.

Service Subs will also fall into kink without sexual gratification; the act of service alone is gratifying enough for them. This is surprising, a very typical form of submission for service subs, and their submission is through domestic service for their Dom/me. They will clean, do laundry and cook for their Dom/me’s. Knowing that their Dom/me is in a clean home with cleaning clothing and fed satisfies their kink.

You get sadists and masochists that meet up a couple of times in a month just to engage in impact play together and then go home to their partners. It all depends on what type of kinkster you are and what you want to get out of your kink. Do you wish to experience subspace while being tied up, or do you want to experience subspace while your partner ties you up?

The BDSM community is welcoming g and open-minded regardless of what type of BDSM relationship or dynamic you want. Kink without sex is all about honesty and exploring yourself and your kinks.

Kink without sex is more common than most believe, especially in many BDSM dynamics; it is about the kink and not about the sex. If you have been to any dungeons, you will have noticed this yourself.