An introduction to paddles
When it comes to impact play, there is a paddle out there for everyone. Paddles can be very versatile, and they come in many different sizes, shapes, and materials.
Depending on what was negotiated before a scene, the usual impact scene will start with spankings and will progress to paddles to increase the intensity. As fun as spankings are, they can be hard on the hands of the Dom/me, and this is why you have additional impact play implements like paddles.
Even though paddles are easier to use than whips and floggers, it is always important to understand that the incorrect use of a paddle can unpleasantly hurt your partner.
When using a paddle, only use it on larger areas like buttocks and thighs; these areas have a lot of muscle and fat, making them more suitable for impact play. Never use a paddle near your partner’s organs or joints, and always avoid the spine, neck, head, and face.
Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want a hardcore black BDSM-themed paddles or a pink heart-shaped paddle, it is entirely your choice.
When deciding on paddles, you will notice that some have holes and others don’t. Paddles with holes are more intense and painful as there is less friction between the paddle and skin; it allows for harder hits with less effort. If you are a beginner with paddles or even impact play, instead opt for solid paddles and build up from there once you understand your strike strength and pain threshold. The general rule of thumb is the smaller the paddle, and the more painful the impact will be as you are concentrating on smaller areas with the same amount of force. So start off with a larger paddle and gradually use smaller paddles as the scene progresses.
Paddling is something both partners should enjoy; during a scene, slowly build up the intensity and always check in with your partner as you increase the intensity. When using a paddle on your partner’s buttocks, always direct the strike to the middle or bottom of the buttocks. Avoid the tailbone area and striking above the middle of the buttocks.
Try to avoid buying or using cheap items, as you may risk breaking the paddle and injuring your partner. If you notice any of your paddles are damaged or splintering, repair if possible or discard them.
Paddles come in various types of materials, including leather, wood, plastic, ceramic and faux fur. Paddles also come in different shapes and designs, and this is generally for individuality. The look of the paddle is your own preference. Whether you want a hardcore black BDSM-themed paddles or a pink heart-shaped paddle, it is entirely your choice.