Self Love and masturbation

Self Love and masturbation

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Self love and masturbation should go hand in hand. Nobody will love you as much as you should love yourself; the same goes for your orgasms; you will always give yourself the best orgasms, and if you haven’t yet, it is time to start.

Your body has been yours since the beginning. You know what works and what doesn’t work when it comes to your body. You should know what turns you on and just where you need to be touched to push you over the edge. You will always do you better, than anyone else can. This is what makes solo play so amazing, and you will always be able to give yourself amazing orgasms, and sex with a partner will only get better because you know what feels good and where.

The trick with self love and masturbation is to forget the endgame, the orgasm. This is your time; don’t put pressure on yourself to climax; just enjoy touching yourself while focusing on how good it feels. There should be nothing rushing you, so put your phone on silent and take the time you need.

Your biggest sex organ is your brain, so always start with foreplay. First, set the mood; you can light scented candles or dim the lights. There are many ways you can have foreplay during solo play; you can read erotica books or watch your favorite porn. You should have a few porn videos that you enjoy watching and that get the juices flowing; if you don’t have porn start looking for some now. LOL, there is nothing worse than starting solo play with a random porn video and having to stop playing because you are either shocked or disgusted by something in the video. Always have a favorites porn video list that you know is a turn-on.

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Start off sensually with your body, warm yourself up first and get your blood flowing, whether it be pinching your nipples or slapping your own ass. Explore your erogenous zones and get those sensual nerves sparking in all the right places.

Once everything has been set in place to get you in the mood, it is now time to experiment with yourself and explore your body and vagina. Focus on what feels good, and you can either use your hands or sex toys; however, I would recommend using your hands initially as it helps to feel and understand what works for you. Explore your clitoris and vagina, penetrate yourself with your fingers and find your g-spot; trust me, you will know once you find your g-spot.

Self love and masturbation is a fun, sexy, and safe way to explore your body. Masturbation is also very healthy for you, and it helps release stress, it helps me tremulously if I feel a little down somedays. Masturbation will give you that sexual release that you need while learning your body.

There is no right or wrong way to masturbate; it is entirely in your hands. So set the mood, take your time and learn how you can give yourself mindblowing orgasms. Self love is very important and loving your body.

The trick with self love and masturbation is to forget the endgame, the orgasm. This is your time; don’t put pressure on yourself to climax; just enjoy touching yourself while focusing on how good it feels. There should be nothing rushing you, so put your phone on silent and take the time you need.

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